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Todd Hendricks

How to Pass the Test

Scripture

Matthew 4:1-11 (NIV)

Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”

Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’ ”

Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:

“‘He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’ ”

Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’ ”

Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”

Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’ ”

Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.

Main Idea

At any given moment, you can be both tempted by the devil and tested by God, and the two look almost identical from the inside. The difference is the outcome the devil wants you to fail completely, while God tests you because He wants to take you to the next level. Pastor Todd walks through the wilderness temptations of Jesus to show four tests we all face:

  • The Temptation of Self-sufficiency: carrying the weight of provision alone instead of trusting God, living by the motto "I got this."
  • The Temptation of Recklessness: jumping into things without God and then testing His grace with our foolishness.
  • The Integrity Temptation: bypassing righteousness for the sake of accomplishment, cutting corners to get ahead.
  • The Identity Temptation: trying to prove or earn who we are instead of living from the Father's affirmation.

You don't live for your identity, you live from your identity.

Discussion Questions

  1. Pastor Todd said the devil tempts us hoping we fail, but God tests us because He wants to take us to the next level. How does knowing the difference change the way you face a hard moment?
  2. Of the four temptations, self-sufficiency, recklessness, integrity, and identity, which one tends to trip you up most, and what does it look like in your life?
  3. Jesus answered every temptation with "it is written." What would it take for you to have God's Word buried in your heart, ready before the moment of testing comes?
  4. Pastor Todd said this is a sermon less about what to do than what to receive: that you are a child of God because He spoke it over you, not because you earned it. Where do you find yourself still trying to earn what God has already given?

Summary

Reading Matthew 4, Pastor Todd points out that the Spirit led Jesus into the wilderness where the devil tempted Him, so testing and temptation can happen in the very same moment. He unpacks the three temptations Jesus faced: self-sufficiency, the pull to provide for ourselves instead of trusting God, pictured in mercenaries who got baptized with one sword-holding arm still raised out of the water. Recklessness, jumping into jobs and relationships without God and then asking Him to bail us out. And the integrity temptation, sacrificing what is right for the sake of accomplishment, which he confessed hit him over whether to leave a note after backing into a parked car. Jesus passed each test the same way, with three words, "it is written," the Word already buried in His heart. Then Pastor Todd found a fourth and subtler test, the identity temptation, hidden in the devil's repeated line, "if you are the Son of God," daring Jesus to prove who He was.

Jesus did not need to prove anything, because just one chapter earlier the Father had spoken over Him at His baptism, "this is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased," a preceding word He was still living on before He had done a single miracle. That is the word for us too: we are children of God not because we earned it, but because He spoke it over us. Pastor Todd said this message is less about what we do than what we receive, and he showed it through the prodigal son, who failed every temptation and rehearsed a speech to come home as a hired servant, only for the father to interrupt him and call for the robe, the ring, and the shoes of a son. God loves us so much that He will interrupt our mess rather than let us throw away our sonship. So when you fail, and you will, do not hide it the way a scared child hides a broken thing at the back of a drawer. Bring it home, remember who you were always meant to be, and keep getting back up, because there is no righteousness in falling, but there is always righteousness in getting up one more time.

Take Action

  • Choose one passage that speaks to a temptation you keep facing, and memorize it this week so it is written in your heart before the moment comes.
  • Name one failure you have been hiding at the back of a drawer, and bring it to God in prayer this week instead of covering it up.
  • Open Matthew 3:17 each morning this week, reading the Father's word over Jesus and receiving it as His spoken word over you as His child.

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