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Read Scripture. Go Deeper. Ask Questions. Take Action.

Andrew Shaw

To Whom Do I Owe This Honor

Scripture

Romans 12:9-12

⁹Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. ¹⁰Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. ¹¹Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. ¹²Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

Main Idea

Honor should be sincere and not contingent on perfection. It's necessary in our relationships, families, and communities. Honor is real, required, refreshing, and relentless—we are called to consistently value and uplift those around us, reflecting Christ's relentless love and honor towards us.

It is more blessed to give than it is to receive.

Discussion Questions

The sermon starts by discussing what honor truly means and its importance. What does honor mean to you personally? Can you share an example from your life where giving or receiving honor made a significant impact?
Discuss a time when you found it challenging to genuinely honor someone. How did you handle the situation, and what did you learn from it?
Discuss a situation where honoring someone cost you something personally (time, resources, pride, etc.). What was the outcome, and would you do it again?

Summary

This message emphasized the importance of giving honor consistently, even when it's challenging. Honor has four key declarations: honor is real, required, refreshing, and relentless. Honor needs to be genuine and its crucial for strong relationships. Even when we don't feel like it or it seems challenging, we should pray for willingness and energy to honor those around us.

Take Action

• Take some time this week to reflect on how you currently express honor in your daily life. Are there areas where your expression of honor could be more sincere or consistent?

• Identify three people in your life who have significantly impacted you. Take a moment to write them a heartfelt note or message expressing your appreciation and the specific ways they have enriched your life.

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