Groups Discussion Guide

Read Scripture. Go Deeper. Ask Questions. Take Action.

Marissa Jenkins

Hard But Not Hopeless

Scripture

Genesis 28:10-22 NIV

10 Jacob left Beersheba and set out for Harran. 11 When he reached a certain place, he stopped for the night because the sun had set. Taking one of the stones there, he put it under his head and lay down to sleep. 12 He had a dream in which he saw a stairway resting on the earth, with its top reaching to heaven, and the angels of God were ascending and descending on it. 13 There above it stood the Lord, and he said: “I am the Lord, the God of your father Abraham and the God of Isaac. I will give you and your descendants the land on which you are lying. 14 Your descendants will be like the dust of the earth, and you will spread out to the west and to the east, to the north and to the south.  All peoples on earth will be blessed through you and your offspring. 15 I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go, and I will bring you back to this land. I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.” 16 When Jacob awoke from his sleep, he thought, “Surely the Lord is in this place, and I was not aware of it.” 17 He was afraid and said, “How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God; this is the gate of heaven.”

18 Early the next morning Jacob took the stone he had placed under his head and set it up as a pillar and poured oil on top of it. 19 He called that place Bethel, though the city used to be called Luz. 20 Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will watch over me on this journey I am taking and will give me food to eat and clothes to wear 21 so that I return safely to my father’s household, then the Lord will be my God 22 and this stone that I have set up as a pillar will be God’s house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth.”

Main Idea

Our faith in God is meant to be an unwavering anchor in our life. When things get tough, we can recognize God's presence and pray that our perspective is transformed. We will not be put to shame when we rest in God's promises for our life.

God will turn hard moments into opportunities to be strengthened.

Discussion Questions

  1. Can you share an experience where your faith served as an anchor during a challenging time?
  2. In the sermon, there was an emphasis on trusting in God's purpose even when things are hard. What challenges do you face in maintaining this trust?
  3. God was with Jacob even though he was unaware of it. Can you point to a time in your life where God has helped you even though you didn't realize it? How is He with you right now?
  4. Where is a place in your life that you'd like to transform your perspective to God's perspective?

Summary

Just because something is hard doesn't mean that it's hopeless. When challenges come our way there is always something we can do.

Look for God's presence.

Remember God's promise.

See God's perspective.

By having faith in God we are giving ourself an anchor during hard times and a compass for when we feel lost.

Take Action

  • Choose a moment each day to anchor your mindset in faith.
  • Pray that your perspective on struggles is transformed by the Holy Spirit.
  • Find one way this week to encourage someone near you to place their faith in God during a challenging time.

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